SPONSORED FEATURED ARTICLE — November 18th, 2019
We’ve become a society that’s entirely focused on itself, from selfies to social media profiles loaded with pictures of ourselves. In this media-obsessed world, we see the term “narcissistic” thrown around quite a bit, but what does it actually mean? How do you know when you’re in a relationship with someone who suffers from narcissistic personality disorder? Here are some tips to follow so you can spot the tell-tale behavior of a narcissist before they embed themselves in your life.
Self-Importance That Trumps Everything
So, what does NPD actually mean? Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition that affects its victims in several ways. The victim idealizes a sort of “artificial” version of themselves. Basically, a narcissist falls in love with themself, but at the end of the day, the person they’re in love with is nothing more than an illusion.
Narcissists usually battle intense insecurity, which manifests itself as a “better” version of the person. That “better” version soon becomes their central focus, to the point of detriment to those around them. The self-absorption becomes more important than even maintaining friendships, jobs, and relationships in general.
It’s important to note that someone who seems selfish isn’t necessarily a narcissist. The next few signs are more impactful and fall well outside the scale of someone who just seems “selfish”.
Constantly Needs Attention
Being raised by narcissists can certainly have an effect on how one views themselves. Since NPD stems from insecurity, being raised by people who are completely self-absorbed can create a need for attention. This is a symptom of NPD, and we’re not just talking your typical need to be noticed....